Sunday, July 24, 2011

Pioneer Day Tribute

Major Howard Egan, my great-great-grandfather.

(Excerpted from an article by Bob Hale in the Salt Lake Telegram, a daily newspaper, April 14, 1934). "When the first bunch of letters and papers were brought into Salt Lake City by Pony Express on April 7, 1860, Major Howard Egan was in the saddle. It was appropriate he should be the first rider because no one man played a greater part in this romantic history of western history than did this Utahn.
Major Egan knew virtually every foot of the route between Salt Lake and California, having driven stock and escorted many a train out of this city. He laid out Egan's route, which was chosen by the firm of Russell, Majors and Waddell, when it organized the Pony Express".

Howard Egan was originally from Ireland, and was converted to the Mormon Church by Erastus Snow at Salem, Massachusetts in 1842. That same year he went to Nauvoo, Illinois where he was appointed major in the Nauvoo Legion and became a member of the Nauvoo police force and the Prophet Joseph Smith's guard, who has said "he felt safe when Howard Egan was on guard". He received his Patriarchal blessing under the hands of Hyrum Smith. He was made captain of the Ninth Ten when the first group of pioneers were organized at Winter Quarters. Major Egan was often called on by President Brigham Young to help with the entertaining. His first home was built on North Main Street. Some years later he served as a member of the police force and as deputy sheriff. He also acted as guard a the home of Brigham Young and after the death of the Mormon leader, he was appointed to guard his grave. While still performing this duty he was stricken with pneumonia and passed away in 1878.


Howard Egan's second son, my great-grandfather Richard Erastus Egan.

"Rass" as he called in his youth by fellow riders and friends in Salt Lake, was one of the most daring of all the couriers in the Pony Express. Young Egan made the first westbound trip out of Salt Lake City on his sorrel mare "Miss Lightning", which became famous for later rides.
Like his father, Rass Egan had his brushes with the Indians between Salt Lake and Rush Valley during the Piute War of 1860. While making a regular trip in the spring of that year he came upon a stage which had been held up by Indians. He viewed the tragic scene. The driver and passenger had been killed and the mail rifled and horses stolen.
As Egan pounded along the trail, a lone Indian, one of the raiders, suddenly appeared, armed with a rifle and bow and arrows and set out after the pony rider.
Young Egan knew just what to do. Confident his horse was the better steed, he rode just fast enough to keep out of gunshot range. Then suddenly he wheeled and charged straight at the Indian, who turned and fled. Egan related the incident as though he regarded it as a good joke on the Indian.
Rass made the longest ride on record, riding two routes, meeting the express from the west, then returning over the two routes without stopping, a continuous ride of 330 miles.

Love the Old West and the Pioneers!
T

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Kudos to my Mom

Mom taught Junior High Geography in Maryland and Utah for a combined total of 32 years! (She also took a break to work for Senator Garn for about 7 or 8 years... :) ) What a difference for the better she has made in thousands of lives. And she's not done, she will continue to contribute as a Refugee Volunteer. I know she'll be an amazing service no matter where she goes. (Not to mention light up the room with her smile!)
Sandy and her beautiful sisters Carolyn, Lori and Robyn

My brother Chris, me, my cousin Tiffany that I grew up with in Maryland.


Chris with cousins Tony and Stephen.


Cousin Jenna's son Drew (so dang cute!)

Thanks Mom for your example and your dedication to teaching us about the world around us!

Friday, July 1, 2011

Mary McDonald

These interior designs are by Mary McDonald.

My favorite here is the green room on the left.
 This outdoor space is amazing!
 In love with the beds she does- this would have been my dream bed as a young girl.
And I love this bed, the wall color and mirrors... see more of her looks Mary McDonald.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Wild West Show

Well, it's been a few weeks- I actually got sick with bronchitis and was out of commission for about 3 weeks. But, we did finally manage a fun outing to the Wild West Show at the Spanish Fork Fairgrounds a couple weeks ago. We are definitely enjoying some nice Spring weather! Hope you are too.

                                          We got Briana to come with us! :)
                                          I think Wyatt Earp is in this one.
 
A well in the middle of nowhere (Millard County, getting sand). Fun day trip!

Monday, May 9, 2011

Perfect Little Moments

     Yesterday was Mother's Day (Happy belated Mother's Day Mom's!) and I wanted to make dinner for my Mom. As we both had been thinking about what to make for dinner we separately thought of making barbecue brisket. I love it when we have those moments where we're in sync, where "great minds think alike". **smile** (Perfect little moment #1).
      We hadn't had it for a long time and it sounded good, and we laughed when we figured out we had both thought of it. It takes some preparation and lots of cooking time, but it's relatively easy. So the night before I started marinating, the next morning started cooking. It was five hours before I had to touch it again so I had some free time.
     Sundays are usually my time to relax with the poodles for a bit. I gave Briana a ride to work, took the poodles with me, and after we went to Fort Utah Park.
     The temperature was ideal for me, warm/cool, a little overcast and windy, and the park was deserted. (Just the way I like it!) I let the poodles out to run and chase the ball, and for just a few minutes a perfect peace and sense of well-being settled over me, like a gift from Heaven, and I have to think it was. I savored that moment, holding onto it for as long as I could (Perfect Moment #2).
     There's so much turmoil in our lives. I'm always trying to put my difficulties in perspective, but often feel bogged down in my frustrations, worries, anxieties, and it's something I deal with on a daily basis.

     But today I remember thinking: No matter what happens, no one can take this moment from me.

For these moments, I am truly grateful. (P.S. The brisket was fabulous too!)

Monday, May 2, 2011

Happy 40th Jason

Jason's Tres Leches cake and his victory pose after successfully putting out the fire on the cake :) Today is his actual birthday but we had his party on Saturday night.

Look at these faces!

I will always, always remember and love them at this age, so much. This is Wyatt with my brother's girls, Avery and June doing an Easter egg hunt in our front yard. Avery is 4, Wyatt is 3, and June is almost 2.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Buffy's Blog

I know my blog has been pretty neglected for months, however, I made a header and it's name is Buffy's Blog. Ha ha! I'm not a professional blogger, but I want my blog to be an outlet for me, creative or otherwise, and to reflect more of me than just being a Mom, etc. etc. I was dubbed "Buffy", I hope affectionately, by a neighbor friend in high school and it stuck. Buffy was me before marriage, before kids, and it represents a time when I didn't have any labels per se, but was just living life and figuring out who I wanted to be. I guess that still applies today...on second thought, yes, it definitely still applies today. :)

Monday, April 25, 2011

Is She Really Gone

I am missing my friend today. A lot. There are days like this when I still can't believe she's gone. My friend Trudy. It's been almost five years since she died. My mind is flashing back on her smile and laugh, her face, and it's hard to believe that I can't just call her and go see her. To describe the friendship I felt with Trudy is difficult to put into words. An unbreakable bond, a joy and comfort that just always felt like "home". Always laughter, but more than just a sense of fun, a deep comradeship. I don't know if I've ever felt as much belonging as I did in that friendship.

Then, out of the blue, her daughter Linzy called, and I instantly remembered it was her birthday (Linzy's). She told me she's getting married this Fall. I'm so happy that she called, and so sorry that Trudy won't physically be there with me to see her daughter be married. Is it strange that talking to Linzy brings tears to my eyes, and emotions well up all over again? I wonder if she feels the same stab of emotion talking to me as I do talking to her. I feel like exchanging memories about her Mom, and saying again how much she means to me, but I don't want to make anything more painful for her than it already must be. She lost her Mom so much sooner than most of us do. I don't know how that feels. I wish all the comfort of the angels for you Linz, and a wee bit for me too, if possible.

July 1, 2011 P.S. I borrowed this photo from Trudy's sister Jenny that she recently posted on facebook. This is Trudy telling me not to take myself to seriously :)
I miss you every day, Trude.

Friday, April 22, 2011

I Need A Vacation- BAD

So, Jason has been gone to Blanding for work for over a week. I've been with Wyatt for over a week, no breaks. Yup, I'm going to lose it. I'm not one of those people who can spend unlimited time with their children (wait, are there even people like that?). The only thing that keeps me sane is those times when I can check out from mommyhood for a couple hours, either with friends or by myself. Especially because we don't go on real vacations, so those little breaks are literally all I have!

(I can't even daydream about being somewhere else without interruption. Grrrrr!) Just had to vent today.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Updated Links

I was bored out of my mind last night so I added a bunch of links I like to the blog. Now I just need to organize them somehow!

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Sir!


This is the look you get from a child that hasn't been photographed in a long, long time. A little too excited, poor kid.

I took a couple pictures of him in his current military phase. He is loving all things soldier, camo, weapony, shooty, saluty. (He actually salutes us, yes).

I've found the 'yes sir' 'no sir' thing really works! If I give him an 'order' followed by 'sir' or 'soldier', I get results! Obedience without question, is this actually possible?? I love it. I love being saluted. I'm fine with being called sir. Maybe I could've had a military career. I'll never know now, unfortunately.

I'm wondering how long I can make this phase last.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Seriously Overdue

It's been months since I checked my blog or anyone elses! But, it's a New Year and I'm looking forward to 2011. Odd numbered years are always better for me :)
More soon.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Bear Lake

This just makes me say "ahhh"- so relaxing. Except later the wind blew really hard and overturned the shade tents!


Ol' Ephraim the Bear. Wyatt was afraid of him and wouldn't pose!

We went to Bear Lake w/ some friends over Labor Day weekend. We stayed at a KOA cabin, which I hadn't done before, and I loved it- that's my kind of camping :)

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Summer 2010


Summer is really going by quickly, isn't it? I love it- the long, sunny days, or even better, a warm summer storm. Grilling, family, and friends. This 4th of July was so far my favorite holiday of the year! Jason is busy, busy which for us is a great thing! He loves to work in his yard and we love to watch everything bloom and grow.
Lately I keep getting drawn back into the past, feeling almost homesick for those days. Then I remind myself that someday, these are the days I'll be longing for and so it brings me right back to the present. Change is difficult for me, I want to keep all the good things just as they are. I guess I'm just a sentimental fool :)

Monday, June 7, 2010

Indian Food

Yesterday I made some excellent Chicken Tikka Masala, one of my favorite Indian dishes. I had some big doubts about whether it would be good, but we all agreed it was DELICIOUS. And so much cheaper than the restaurant. I even made Mango Lassis! Yum. In fact, I may have to make it again right away. It's worth it to make the basmati rice instead of regular. And, I have a recipe for Gobi Aloo that I will be making- a potato/cauliflower dish that I love. I miss the vegetable Pakora with mint chutney, and naan from the restaurant, but maybe at some point I can figure out those too. I found the recipes on Allrecipes.com. (People always take pictures of their food, I don't know if I'd ever remember to do this).

Friday, May 28, 2010

Darling Graduate



PF Chang's before Graduation



I'm so excited that Briana has reached this milestone. Congrats Bri! We love you!

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Briana's Birthday



Briana turned 18! We had dinner at Tucano's the night of her birthday and the next night she had a friend party at the house. Wyatt gave her a bouquet of suckers. They played Rock Band, hit a pinata, and ate BBQ.

Photos